It is expected that everyone will abide by the gender roles rooted in Indian society. Those rolls are that the woman has to tidy up the house, the man has to go out and earn. However, at present these Rules and Responsibilities are changing a little. I am so glad that your couple is one of those changing couples. However, we must not forget one thing. Everyone has some cozy days and some chirag days. These gender roles can have an impact on him in the days of Chirag. Also, you have to remember that no single person is perfect and it is not possible for anyone to learn everything. It is a good thing you take care of your family.
Have a healthy discussion with your loved ones once you both are calm. Ask him out well if he is no longer absorbed in the connection. Cooking is not a big difficulty. If not cooking is your choice then be confident that you have made that choice and understand that it is for the good of all. Other than that, there are many ways if you want to learn cooking or improve your cooking skills. One of the best ways is to learn from them. This will strengthen the bond between the two of you and increase the amount of time you spend together.
Lastly, I think it’s important to check back often to see if there are any other reasons why this is affecting your confidence levels. Therapy can make it easier to find such causes and help you deal with them.